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Caring can cost a lot, but not caring can cost more.  Loneliness is something people do to themselves.  But, the question remains if men do and understand all of the things that they need to know, will  it make a difference in the quality of their relationships, or help women to love and accept them more?
 
I believe if each partner is willing to accept the other without conditions, and is willing to accept the others faults as jewels in a continual process of being refined like a diamond in the rough, then they can strive to nurture limitless boundaries.
 
    When you have choose the type of man
    who is self-absorbed and appears to
    expect others to feed him first, don't
    expect him to ask who is feeding you, as 
    his defenses and manner of being may 
    appear to be more primitive than others.  
 
    When you choose this type of man for 
    your mate, he is who he is, and expecting
    him to change or selfishly wanting it 
    undermines the integrity of who you
    both are.
 
    Instead, seek to attract a man who
    already has the qualities that you want
    in a partner, so neither of you has
    to compromise your virtues to be happy.
 
There seems to be three main streams to life, the emotional, the sensual, and the rational -- and most men seem to be made up of all three in differing degrees. 
 
However, when men grow more in one way than in another -- the side of them which is the most developed will also determine the kind of mate and/or friend they will make.
 
  
 
Each man holds between his hands
a silence that he wants to fill, so he fills that silence with his dreams ...
So that love can grow from you, very few men are tough enough to be soft  
 
  
 
If you can’t commit to something
big, then commit to something small.
The end result will always reflect the quality of effort that goes in ...
 
 
I like to think life is like a bank in which emotional currency gets put in and is drawn out.  And, sometimes you take out of the bank what you put in, and sometimes you get back something else. 

But the energy that is put into it, is passed on to everyone else, and men often wonder why life keeps showing up the same way ...

   
 
Perhaps the biggest source of unhappiness in the world today
stems from the idea that there
is some one out there who will
meet all of your needs ...
Instead, they could be asking if there is someone out there who might need them ...
It is easy to spend your life looking for an elusive something in someone else, and always holding out for what you don't quite know.  But many men do it without recognizing that they are really looking for themselves ...
 
 
  
 
In a full heart there is room for everything ...
Love is a gift that keeps on giving ...
 
Being emotionally there for another person involves listening with your whole self to everything that they are saying, and to what they aren't saying as well.  If men really do this well they will hear what women are hoping and what they are both fearing, including what neither can acknowledge even to themselves.
 
The intimacy of that level of relationship allows both partners to accept themselves and their mate in an unconditional bond, that allows you to share the joys of what each of you may individually feel inside.
 
 
 
 
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