Caring can cost a lot, but not caring can cost more. Loneliness is something people do to themselves. But, the question remains if men do and understand all of the things that they need to know, will it make a difference in the quality of their relationships, or help women to love and accept them more?
I believe if each partner is willing to accept the other without conditions, and is willing to accept the others faults as jewels in a continual process of being refined like a diamond in the rough, then they can strive to nurture limitless boundaries.
When you have choose the type of man
who is self-absorbed and appears to
expect others to feed him first, don't
expect him to ask who is feeding you, as
his defenses and manner of being may
appear to be more primitive than others.
When you choose this type of man for
your mate, he is who he is, and expecting
him to change or selfishly wanting it
undermines the integrity of who you
Instead, seek to attract a man who
already has the qualities that you want
in a partner, so neither of you has
to compromise your virtues to be happy.
There seems to be three main streams to life, the emotional, the sensual, and the rational -- and most men seem to be made up of all three in differing degrees.
However, when men grow more in one way than in another -- the side of them which is the most developed will also determine the kind of mate and/or friend they will make.